"The hardest of all is learning to be a well of affection,and not fountain,to show them that we love them,not when we feel like it,but when they do"

Sunday, October 23, 2011

100th post and sorry bloggie :( Belated happy birthday :D :P

This is my 100th post guys and it feels like just one of those days when i pen all the others but this time it is different it ought to be different.But nah! nothing as such.
This is going to be my second personal reflection on this blog so i am being a bit diplomatic yet want to be transparent about.And guess what i missed birthday of my blog :/ that is it's one year completion but never mind i wish him belated happy birthday now let me see how does it punishes me for being late in wishing :P

Anyway so i will start with the person behind this blog..yeah yeah i can see your eyes rolling and saying aah must be a guy after all most of you address me as a love girl.Yes it is a guy but not as you might have wanted :P ..
Like any other person you face online while on social circuits i encountered this particular person and then we talked and he invited me to create a blog to which i responded a bit reluctantly but still embracing the opportunity to see whats gonna happen next.It's not like i did not write before but it was not like this having your own space.I wrote there for sometime and then i withdrew my blog i.e. deleted it.Then after sometime i wished to write with a surrounding that called me and reminded me of me as my own.So i finally created Reigning wanderer which now i have changed into Afixxion Addixt !
I'll always be obliged to towards this person who made me unfurl in pretty,ugly,bad,happy,sad,rude,angry moods.If it weren't for him i wouldn't have got such wonderful people in my life through my blog.
All you followers who at times hop in to check and the ones not so regular have decorated my place with their own jewels.Thank you to all of you :)
So here we go a boring story finished :D
These people are just magnificent when talked with and i would like to thank them to spare time talking with me..
Beyond horizon:Her musings are magic and they sure to cast spell upon you too have tried to catch her online many times :P but now we have become wall chatters isn't that great? :D :P 
Eon Heath:has not been blogging much as of now but whatever he writes he puts in a part of himself and makes it come almost alive :)  
Fatima:true and honest confession but i seldom visit her blog but at a personal level we have talked so much i will call her my soul sister :)  
MAVERICK:I like your poems with wine,music,desire..its just so reminds me of you..these things..your poems are the ones i connect with so well..and your stories are all different and bring out intriguing and tough decisions one has to make in ones life..and i am in love with this name Zaira thanks to you..And i seriously loved the testimonial you wrote about me it was just awesome and i haven't felt so nice after reading something about me before..thank you very much.A request that is please start more often than not again :) 
Ninu:he has left blogging ask him to resurrect people :/ he writes randomly and anything to everything
P-kay:I just love his stories..he has been working very much lately..can't see him writing from many months..hopefully he will return back cause i miss his stories.
Rupesh(Rup):I liked your blog very much..the one that caught me was Coffee? ;) and the image from UP accompanied by the lovely poem:kuch karke jana hai...I know i haven't replied you longtime but hopefully will pretty soon.Nice to know whatever little i could of you :) and yeah all the best for all the endevours you are going to take and are taking :D
The other side of me:she is my bestieeeeeeeee i can write her oodles and get oodles from her..her blog is one more charmer which will leave you ending up at all times of the day there..you'll know about her life so well from her blogs and her poems are lovely
Vaisakhi Mishra:writes pain and love both beautifully and has never made me feel a stranger to her :)

And these are some new people who i have got acquainted with and would wish to check out there lives more often than not
Jztsignedup:Dude you are missing..hopefully you'll knock in soon.Remember you have a duty after signing up :P 
Swanrose:His blog emits a beautiful aura that i told him the first time i visited his blog.haven't been able to read you since long sowie :( ..His poems portray love in pain and pain in love with the a hint of longing and ray of hope for happy ending is superb! 
The lonely recluse:Currently burdened up with uni things :P  You write something very different and i don't know in which category it falls .I like your dark posts :)
Niya:She possesses this great epitome of love for everyone :) 
Reicha Ahluwalia:A very sweet girl who really does make her belief of miracle happens come true
Anjali:Jolly person and i find her musings so very different you can't put them into any category they are of their own unique origin
Lil angel:Sorry girlie i haven't been able to reach you from sometime..she is really an angel with her writing and one of my lovely follower i would say 
Hamza Bin Laden:A great influence on almost every second person that visits his blog..his writings leave me laughing and he never fails to flatter with his comments :P ..yippeeeeeee he is also of same age as mine :P
Tarunima:She is a greatttttttttttttttt poet i have ever seen till date..i am left wondering and awestruck after every work i read from her
Little things in love:Seriously i don't know her name :P She might not know me but i have commented i guess on one of her posts :P but the thing is i have read every post by her :D The way she writes about her 'S' is sweet.I like to read YOUR stories girl :)

Now people i would like to know from this time are these
Serendipity:Your dp did feel like a professional artwork until and unless you revealed the story behind it..i just love her personal musings in the end :) i am not saying only those :P her writings are also wonderfully displaying different caliber each time you read her :)
Crystal:Your blogger name is wonderful and your blog has caught me so very well..i just love the very aura of it
PeeVee(priyanka):I like the most part of her that she is a chocolate lover :D :D i know thats so selfish of me :P and after i visited her blog i feel like she can be and write from anything to everything with a hint of intellect and jolliness :)..Hope to know you more
Rahul:I laugh after i read your posts :) simple things but put in a very innovative way..totally cranky dude ;) Would like to indulge more often than not. 
The guy in the mirror:haven't been reading much lately but will strike up soon..you write simply you.. direct from heart :)
Saru Singhal:I'll know you soon :) 
Jidhu Jose:Your photography is awesome!
Valli:Arty and seems so innocent with her penned poems.
Ovais Shaikh:I wish you are happy most of the time :) and you also write nice so it's not that you should end up saying wish i could write like you :P

And last but not the least a very strange kind of a person who visits my blog almost anonymously and praises my work like it leaves me smiling.That person becomes my guest is missing from somedays and i am missing that person too where are you Mr. Guest?

So this was enough of known, knowing, want to know and now i would like to share a award with five people which i have received from The lonely recluse ..Thank you very much Lonely recluse :) and it's a rule to share :P
In German—“liebster” means “dear,” from the verb “lieber” [to love]“.

    • Thank the giver and link
      back to the blogger who gave it to you.
    • Reveal your top 5 picks
      and let them know by leaving a comment on their blog.
    • Copy and paste the award
      on your blog.
    • Have faith that your
      followers will spread the love to other bloggers.
    • And most of all – have
      bloggity-blog fun!

There is this one person i shall not name that i want to give the award too because that person likes to be anonymous here most of the time.I'll ask them and if they provide me with a yes and i will reveal there name then :)
Eon Heath:Your shayari blog :)
The other side of me

Those i did not name please don't be sad cause i could only give this award to five people and i made the picks.I like to read you all :)
Okey here is one more thing i want to add up in this very post and that is that i haven't been writing lately and don't know at present when would be my time to write regular so here is wishing everyone over here a very happy diwali..may your house be enlightened with love,prosperity,good health and wisdom!
And those who are going to celebrate Halloween for them Happy Halloween :D

Yeah you saw it right..Bring me the candies :P :P and the diwali goodies too hehehe..
Hope i bored you well ;)
Take care
have a safe and happy diwali and a frightening Halloween :D


Cяystal said...

Aw! Congrats on the hundred, hun! *bear hug* Plus, I don't know if I told you earlier or not, but your background is mesmerizing.
I'm glad we have so many mutuals. Glad to be in the list and hopefully shall be there, for long. :)
And to many more posts to come. *cheers*

~Serendipity~ said...

I indeed had a very happy visit Alcina :) Hearty congratulations on your 100th post. It seriously feels like an achievement na ? I haven't reached there, but I'm dying to :):)
Thank You so very much for that special mention :)



Red Handed said...

Belated happy birthday to ur blog babes!
This was such a cute post.
Have a great Diwali!
Keep smiling .

Simran said...

Congratulations my dear..
Happy Blog Anniversary ..
I wish many more sweet years of blogging to you..

Keep Expressing! :)
Happy Diwali
Much love ..

SUB said...

gr8! congratss

Rahul said...


Reicha Ahluwalia said...

Congratulations for your 100th blogpost :)
Thanks for mentioning me too. I am feeling lucky(1st time some one mentioned me in a blog post on blogspot :P )
Diwali is approaching and i wish may your all dreams come true.
Stay blessed.
Take care !

Rahul said...

Thanks for mentioning my name...and congrats again!!!!:-)

Niya said...

Ow that was so sweet of u :) thanks for the mention of my blog... glad to know that u liked my blog :)

M in love said...

Hey dear, A beautiful blog you have here.. The feel of this blog is soo soo amazing!

Thank you so much for mentioning me here :) As for my blog, it is a little place I created to share some love, which I couldn't so openly talk on my other popular blog.. Anonymity does make it easy given that people love you for your work even if they don't know who you are :)

You were wrong in saying that I don't know you. You have left such wonderful comments (which I have also shown S :) ) on a couple of my posts which makes me want to write on that space..

Wish you a very happy diwali dear :) Have a diwali filled with love and happiness :) :)

Hamza Bin Ladin said...

Thanks for mentioning me in your post.
Your blog is one of my ultimate favorites.

Beyond Horizon said...

Humbled...honored *Bows*

Ahh!!!!So many sweets in form of words before Diwali..am surely gonna get diabetes :P

I still remember we came to know each other through a Mystery ;) My Greek Princess :D

and the mystery is unfolding itself as time is passing by...

Thanks to the one who made you start your own blog...Its always a pleasure to read your dark mysterious writings...which is filled with longing for beloved ;)

No worries, no punishment...lots of love and happiness coming your way :)

Should I say how much I loved the Blue Rose behind your blog title ;)
This place reflects how you are...and am sorry am not being a regular visitor these days.

Happy Diwali to you...Thanks for the Lovely Award too :)

P.S. Yes! catching me online is very difficult :P
but knock on my wall..I will always answer it :D

⁂ܓVållῐ ⁂ܓ☺ said...

Hey Congrats for your 100th post and Belated Birthday wishes to your blog :)
Thanks to the person who suggested you to create blog :)

Thanks for writing a few lines about me :) That's so sweet of you ^_^

All the best and Happy Blogging :)

vaisakhi said...

hola...long time n we surely missed u...but sure ur blog missed u the most...how could u forget ur bloverssry??!!??:O....which reminds me i have to pamper mine a bit too...hmm thanku so much 4 confirmin tat i dont make u feel like a strangr...though i could chat wid u only 2ce i guess....srry 4 tat....n yes...HAPPY DIWALI and kali puja...:)

The Lonely Recluse. said...

Happy 100th post and happy blog birthday. I'm glad you chose to share the blogging love on this special post. Congrats to all the people who you shared it with, and to those who you wanted to share it with but couldn't (sorry to you folk, I didn't make the 5 person rule).
The Lonely Recluse.


Alcina dat was simply great... intersting... a cute work.. thnx for including me in your list and thnx a lot for the comment on me... trust me i loved it... keep in touch always tc :)

Lilangel said...

A Belated Happy Appy Birthday to dearest blog :) Love the new look Alicina..

Keep writing the soulful poems that you always do...:)

Lilangel said...

Belated Happy Birthday Dearest Blog :)

Awww..thanks for mentioning my blog n me :) That was v generous of you Alicina :)

I love your soulful poems....keep them coming :)

the other side of me said...

hey darlingggggggggggggg hugs..you mentioned me here Yay..im feeling so happy right now..and yeah you'll always be my bestie :) and thanks for the lovely words

and you gave me the liebster award and I loved it..its german and I noe lil bit of german..so I feel honored (like a lot) and about that someone..hmmm i never know that :(

take care honey

Ich liebe dich

the other side of me said...

and conrats on the 100th..:D

Alcina said...

All i shall say is *fingers crossed*
Well i am looking forward to grow the list of mutual for sure..
Thanks a ton for this sweet liking..Hugs

Alcina said...

That mention was worth it and you have earned it ;) (i so feel like gorging on a bournville i know i know you hate chocolates :P )

It's way more than achievement i swear..I wish you reach this kind of feeling soon and i get to read more of your personal tit bits!

Alcina said...

@Red Handed
Aww..thank you so much..and i felt it like such a modest comment..
Hope you had a great diwali yourself!

Alcina said...

Thank you so much..wish the same your way and i shall check your milestone surely soon!

Alcina said...

Thank you..though i haven't ever got the chance to comment on your blog..but your baby is damnnnnnnnnnn chweeeeeeeeeeetttttt..aww i am in love..

Alcina said...

Thank you!
But you know as said..it was worth it..

Alcina said...

@Reicha Ahluwalia
Believe me it was double the pleasure writing about you miracle girl!
Thank you..and i hope you remain happy always..

Alcina said...

Sometime,somewhere..you had to :)

Alcina said...

@M in love
That was so superb a comment to read..and i am smiling like i don't know your comment has surely made me feel nice..
Hope you had a diwali filled with love and happiness!

Thank you so much

Hope you had a happy visit!
Keep chiming..

Alcina said...

@Hamza Bin Ladin
That was so generous of you!
My pleasure btw..

Alcina said...

@Beyond Horizon
How could i not mention such a lovely writer like you..my one of the best finding in blogger world and indeed a great starter with mystery..i so thank blog-a-ton for this one!

You are a doctor..don't worry i know you must have taken preventative measures..and moreover i had added sweetener and not real sugar..but mind you its not fake.

Well guess what blue rose has been the second best on my blog..and i can totally connect to what you might have felt by seeing it..

Hope you had a blast this diwali!
Keep smiling always..
P.S.-Catch you on wall soon ;)

Alcina said...

@⁂ܓVållῐ ⁂ܓ☺
Thank you and welcome :)
You too keep writing and drawing!

Alcina said...

Yeah i did :( ..i know i have to compensate for it but seriously i dnt knw hw to..neva mind will figure that out..
Sure sure..pamper your blog soon and i will visit it soon too!
Hope you had both the festivals happy happy!

Alcina said...

@The Lonely Recluse.
Thank you so much..and really heartfelt thanks for that award and it was good to share..and about that five thingie no problem buddy i know the rules have been created way back!

Alcina said...

Thank you so much and welcome
Will surely keep in touch..you too tc..and keep smiling!

Alcina said...

Ah!..after such a longtime angel arrives :)

Thank you!
And you loved them..now you don't? :( :P

Alcina said...

@the other side of me
Thank you my dear cutie pie for your visit..hugssssssss(tight ones)
You will of course know it dear..coz i'll let you know!
And that german i don't know..but what i make out from the last ending you might have said i love you..is it so?

Keep smiling always..
P.S.-My inbox is shining..glittering..smiling..kissing..hugging..for the mail it received !

Fatima said...

A belated actually very belated Happy B'day to your blog :D

Well yea same here hardly read your blog but what ever I've read is simply amazing :)

And yes you're a cute little sis be the way you are and baki not be to mentioned publcially ;)

Take Care

Alcina said...

Thank you :P for the oh so belated happy birthday wish to my blog.

Yeah yeah..secret :P :P

keep smiling always..

Eon Heath said...

ok i know i am terribly late...but then, i did come.. ;-) after all i couldn miss out on anyone showeringa few accolades on me..

thanks a ton.. am glad you could relate to my writings...